Tuesday, 1 March 2016

How To Be Happy (For Real) | #SpeakUp

How To Be Happy (For Real) | #SpeakUp mental health depression illness tips quick SpeakUp

Happiness is something that everyone strives to have, but how many people truly have it? For sure it's normal to have up and down days, days where you feel like a boss and others where you would rather just stay and bed and eat chocolate. But unfortunately, life dictates that these lying in bed, chocolate eating days should be few and far between. We have to suck up the bad days and just get on with it. But wouldn't life be so much better and simpler if we had ways we could be happier, for the benefit of our emotional wellbeing? And that's where Della comes in. Today as part of the #SpeakUp, she is going to be sharing simple ways we can all be a bit happier without being broke 98% of the time! 

Like so many other blog posts and YouTube videos I've seen on the topic I could tell you that the key to happiness is in the smell of a new mac lipstick, a Diptique candle and a Lush bath bomb. Although, if I did that, all you'd get is a list of things that make me "happy"/things that I like, but, not things that are actually conducive to happiness in general. Today I'll be letting you in on some trade secrets and showing you how you can achieve genuine happiness (without buying a thing!)

I say “trade secrets” but the information I’m giving here is no secret, thanks to those clever people at the New Economics Foundation this information is out there in the world for all of us to find. Let me condense it a bit for you.

The theory (and evidence) goes that there are 5 things you can apply to your everyday life which will improve your overall wellbeing and make you happier, at work I call this “the 5 ways to wellbeing” here, I’ll call it “how to be happy” because I like to mix things up like that. So, let’s get right into it.


Connect
The people in our lives make up so much of how we feel about life. When we don’t feel good it’s so tempting to lock yourself away and isolate yourself. Connecting with others is crucial to a strong overall wellbeing. It doesn’t have to be too intense, just reach out, make that phone call, arrange that night out and spend time with people you love.

It only takes a minute: Send a text to a friend you haven’t seen in a while without overthinking it. You want to know how they are, maybe you even miss them – just say that.

Take notice/be mindful
Have you ever walked a familiar route and seen something that’s been there forever, but, you’ve just never noticed? Me too!  We’re all so busy that sometimes it can feel like time is just running away with us. It’s really surprising how much difference it can make to your mood just to take notice of what’s going on around you. So go about your usual routine, just look around, see things you’ve never seen before and pay attention to how you’re feeling.

It only takes a minute: Download “Calm” the free meditation app and take notice of the simplest things.

Give
Giving feels good. You don’t have to give money either (although you could!). You can give someone your time, advice, knowledge or simply attention. It’s easy, you get goodness from it and so does somebody else what’s not to be happy about?

It only takes a minute: Thank someone for something they’ve done that you appreciate, even if it’s just the guy in the corner shop who’s always so smiley.

Be active
As an inherently lazy person when it comes to exercising, I wish this one wasn’t true, but, it so is. The benefits that exercise can have on your wellbeing go way beyond being able to justify that extra biscuit because you’ve spent an hour in the gym. Since I’m not a huge exercise fan I recently brought a pretty bike that tricks me into exercising when really I just need to get to work. There’s also the classic “get off the bus a stop early” you’ll be surprised how much difference it makes!

It only takes a minute: challenge yourself to see how many sit-ups you can do in a minute. Tomorrow, do it again. Or you know, just get off the bus a stop early!

Keep learning
Learning something new is the ultimate confidence boost and a great way to challenge yourself and your comfort zone! If you end up attending that workshop or going on that course, guess what? You’ll probably meet some like-minded people to connect with, bringing this whole thing full circle.
It only takes a minute: find a YouTube tutorial for that thing you’ve always wanted to learn – even if it is just how to achieve Adele’s perfect winged liner.

So, there you have it, 5 easy things you can do to increase your overall happiness. Think of these less as “life hacks” with instant results but more like lifestyle choices. The more you incorporate these things into your everyday routine, the stronger your overall wellbeing and the happier you will be.


In this crazy-busy world we live in, take some time out to look after yourself and prioritise your own happiness, as you can see above, happiness is just 5 minutes away (sort of.)

All these tips are absolutely amazing! I definitely need to try some of them out. I think the whole concept of the ' it only takes a minute' is so much more appealing to a lot of people. As we are often told that we need to be healthier to be happier and in order to be healthier we need to spend two hours every day working out, but seriously who's got time for this?

I would love to know if any of you guys do any of these things already or are planning on trying them out now that you have read this post? What else do you do to help you stay happy? Let me know in the comments below!

I hope you enjoyed this post! Thank you so more Della for writing such helpful and inspiring post!
If you would like to contribute to the #SpeakUp series by writing your own guest post on a topic you think affects young people's health and wellbeing, that you have been through. You can find out more details HERE or drop me an email at thriftyvintagefashionbusiness@mail.com and I will get back to you as soon as possible! 

I really hope that lots of you will be able to join in with the Twitter chat between 8-9pm using #SpeakUp where we will be discussing happiness further! 

Thank you for reading, as always x 

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16 comments

  1. Some lovely ideas here on how to be happier without spending a penny! I definitely have to agree with the exercise one. Makes me in such a better mood. I haven't been to a speak up chat in awhile so I'll be sure to join in on Thursday! I love the topic!

    Ellen,
    http://fishnetsxd.blogspot.ie

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    1. I love how these ideas cost nothing, happiness should never cost a penny x

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  2. These were some great ideas, especially the one about noticing things, too often we just rush past and ignore them xx
    www.blossomofhope.blogspot.com

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    1. oh yes! Its so easy to be in a rush all the time and forget to stop and appreciate the small things x

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  3. I really liked this post! We can all stand to be a little happier so this is great because it shows you little ways to be happy every day. I know these 5 things really make a difference in my happiness level and they're great to be reminded of.

    - Courtney
    courtneylthings.blogspot.com

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  4. I love this! I definitely don't exercise enough but I know how much it would benefit me if I did, it's just finding that motivation! Brilliant post :) xxx
    http://www.samanthafrances.co.uk

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    1. I don't exercise enough too, I Need to get on my bike a bit more I think x

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  5. Such a lovely post! I'm definitely guilty of isolating myself, goal of the week to change that! These are some great points I'll definitely have to use them xx

    Sophie | ssophiespot.blogspot.co.uk

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  6. This was such a nice post to read! It's nice to focus on ideas that don't actually cost anything - I'm definitely guilty of always trying to do things that cost too much money!

    Nicola // pink-confetti.co.uk

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  7. This post is super cute! and a great idea so many people just need to be happy a smile!
    Holly x
    http://hollybanfield.blogspot.co.uk

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